What we’re about
Welcome. I'm so glad you found us... Welcome to SMWSLT. Our group is alive and well and growing by leaps and bounds. We host both online and live events, mostly but not exclusively in the Orange County area.
As of 2022, I am now leading transformational groups to Greece twice a year. Please check out my travel website at lesbiangetaways.com for trip info. We still have space open for our two 2024 adventures in June and September! You can watch a video presentation on the home page if you like or email me anytime.
I have been so touched by the intimacy and connections that are being created ongoingly through our group interactions. Lots of close friendships and circles have been made and yes, even some romance! I try to mix it up and keep it interesting and I’m always open to new ideas and feedback. My commitment to every member is that there are no "outsiders" and all folks that identify as a woman loving women are welcome. I believe that the experience of feeling welcome and included is palpable in our group events whether live or on Zoom.
For FB users, please follow us (facebook.com/somanywomensolittletime/). If you would like to be part of our secret FB group or our So Cal Lesbian Pickleballers group, please email me at lesbiangetaways@gmail.com and let me know. Once in, you can invite your friends directly from there.
I would love it if you joined my mailing list. This separates out our special announcements from all the other meetup emails which can be overwhelming at times. The occasional emails will come from Lesbian Getaways. I ask that you please set your notifications at minimum to receive organizer messages and new event announcements. This has to be done while actually on our group site. You can find the settings by clicking on your round profile photo on the top right corner and select email and notifications.
I am so looking forward to meeting you whether it be online or in person when that time comes.
With Enthusiasm,
Your organizer, Jody
I have been asked many times when I will host another speed dating event since it's been years. Well, THAT TIME HAS COME! This is not your standard speed dating event. This is HIGH-TECH meaning you will answer a few questions ahead of time and then be matched with women who fit your criteria whenever possible!
IF YOU ARE INTERESTED, PLEASE READ ALL THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM!
How does it work? The Little Gay Book's innovative technology allows you to tailor your event experience. You share some information beforehand, including age range, where you fall on the masculine-feminine spectrum and what your preferences are, if any, for your date. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random speed dating. Throughout the night, you will receive text messages directing you to the table where your next encounter awaits.
You will have five minutes to connect and then complete a few quick questions on your phone asking if you are interested in getting to know that person more either as a friend or a date. The technology will track your responses and match you accordingly. You must match in both directions to receive their contact information and then, VIOLA!
I am thrilled to be having my first partnership with Dr. Frankie Bashan of the Little Gay Book! Collaboration is where it's at! They host a lot of speed dating events in many different areas geared toward various demographics. This means that we are both reaching out to our crowds to draw in the perfect combination of participants, some you may know but lots you may not. That's the beauty of it.
I know that some of you say that you do not want to date for a variety of reasons and that you are perfectly happy alone. I say good for you. Nothing wrong with that. However, you can still come to make new connections and grow your community of friends, acquaintances and perhaps even for the purpose of business networking.
Having a few quality minutes with someone can give you a good sense of the person in front of you and whether you feel comfortable and have any common interests and values. If you are a feeling person, you can check out the vibe between you as well. Personally, I get just as excited meeting someone I really hit it off with, even if I am only interested in them as a friend. All relationships have to start somewhere, right? That attitude is a great way to approach this event.
This is a perfect event for those that are shy and feel awkward milling about in large groups because it is structured and everyone is there for the same reasons. I will make this fun and entertaining and on top of that, you will be enthusiastically greeted at the door and introduced around before we event start. You can show up early when the doors open at 6pm if you want some time to relax and warm up so to speak. COME ON....TAKE A CHANCE! Worse case scenario, you will have a fun evening, get some dancing in and go home!
Upstairs at the Executive Suite is an excellent venue for speed dating. It is spacious and the lighting is perfect. Your tickets gets you free entrance to the drag show at 9pm and dancing after that!
TICKETS: $35 in advance, $45 at the door
CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE YOUR EVENTBRITE TICKET
RSVPing here does not give you entrance. You must purchase your ticket on Eventbrite.
SCHEDULE
6:00-6:30 pm Doors open- registration, intros, mingling, buy drinks
6:30-8:30 - Speed dating starts (please arrive by 6:15)
8:30-9:00 - Relax, unwind, visit (optional)
9:00-10:00 - Drag Show (optional)
10:00 on - Dancing (optional)
Please arrive at 6pm to allow for parking, grabbing a drink and registration which could take some time depending on how long the line is. We would appreciate it if you do not come at the last minute so we don't disrupt the event.
FAQ:
Q: How can I connect with my matches after the event?
A: After the event, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, giving you the opportunity to take those promising connections to the next level.
Q: What should I do after the event ends?
A: We encourage you to stay after the event, mingle, and support the venue. It's a chance for great conversations, new friendships, and connections that continue on after our event is over. Sticking around can make the experience even more memorable.
Q: Are there any specific guidelines for attendees?
A: Yes, these collaborative speed dating events are open to lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer women including trans women.
SCHEDULE
6:00 pm Doors open- casual introductions and mingling, registration
6:30-8:30 - Speed dating starts
8:30-9:00 - Relax, unwind, visit (optional)
9:00-10:00 - Drag Show (optional)
10:00 on - Dancing (optional)
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Info/Q&A-2024 Greece Trips:International Women's Festival & Women's Sacred RootsLink visible for attendees
WOMEN'S SACRED ROOTS (June & Sep) & THE INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S FESTIVAL (Sept)
If you are interested or just plain curious about taking a journey with a group of like minded lesbians, then please, by all means, read on! Come and participate in a Q&A/intro to Women's Sacred Roots Journeys to Greece, hosted by me (Jody) and Dimitra, an award winning archeologist, somatic therapist and published author. We have created quite an experience for those that choose to come along!
I will be online with you to answer all of your questions and give you a sampling of what to expect when traveling with us. I will share some photos and videos as well to give you a taste of the fun and adventure.
These are not your typical site seeing adventures. We will visit sacred archeological ruins and learn from an expert all about the mythology, history and culture of ancient times. Add to that snorkeling over the most ancient city in the world, enjoying a thermal spa, visiting some of the most beautiful beaches in the world, exploring caves and quaint, authentic villages and so much more. We are curating an experience that you will never forget! All ages and abilities welcome.
Our September trip is in two parts, the second being to the International Eressos Women's Festival on the isle of Lesvos. You can explore the festival by CLICKING HERE. It makes all the difference in the world to join a group to attend the festival together. We make all your arrangements for you so you can just show up and enjoy!
I will play some snippets of our meeting with Dimitra. Her presence and knowledge will surely charm you! The time of this meeting is not optimal in Greece so she will try to jump on with us, even if it is brief. She has been so busy with her book tour, speaking engagements and archeological installations!
REGISTRATION LINK: Due to increased zoom bombers, I am requiring registration. Please click the link, complete the brief form and then you will either receive the link in your email or it will show up right then. Sorry for the inconvenience. I will be adding you to my mailing list as well!
Even if you can't come this year, come and learn about our trips for future reference or to share with friends.
If you can't make it to this event, we have all the juicy details on our website LesbianGetaways.com including both detailed itineraries, photos and more. Please be sure to join our mailing list while you're there to receive updates and announcements for special events. You won't want to miss our newsletters!
Here is the link to our recent workshop entitled Empowerment Through Greek Goddess Archetypes. I hope you enjoy it.
My email is jody@lesbiangetaways.com if you have any questions.
I hope to see you on Sunday!
Jody
LesbianGetaways.com
So Many Women...So Little Time meetup - Let's Read... Four StepsLink visible for attendees
Hello book lovers! Let’s read and discuss – Four Steps by Wendy Hudson. Alex Ryan lives a simple life. She has her farm in the Scottish countryside, and the self-imposed seclusion suits her until a crime that has haunted her for years tears through the calm and shatters the fragile peace she'd finally managed to find.
Lori Hunter's greatest love is the mountains. They're her escape from the constant hustle and bustle of everyday life. Growing up was neither traditional nor easy for Lori, but now she's beginning to realise she's settled for both. A dead-end relationship and little to look forward to. Her solution when the suffocation sets in? Run for the hills.
A chance encounter in the mountains of the Scottish Highlands leads Alex and Lori into a whirlwind of heartache and a fight for survival as they build a formidable bond that will be tested to its ultimate limits.
364 Pages. (8 hours and 35 minutes on audio.) Plan accordingly.
Facing the past takes great strength. - Jo Jo
NOTES FOR MEETING
Please be prompt, at 6:30 pm Pacific, and plan to stay until we close out as a group or at 8:00 pm Pacific. We open with a short icebreaker within a few minutes of the start time, which is great for getting to know one another better. Arriving late or leaving early “individually” can distract the group discussion, so arriving on time and staying until 8:00 pm Pacific, is appreciated. We do occasionally stay later but if you need to bow out then, no worries. And…we could finish early. (Early has not happened, but I am just saying it could. Lol.)
* It is a social event so please have your video ON. It is also for transparency and peace of mind for all our members in this Zoom world.
WHERE: Zoom - Attendees will receive a private link and password on the day of the event. I will post a comment when I have sent it. Please do not share or post the link or your password.Make sure your Meet Up notification setting for email is on for this group. (If you saw this book discussion announced via email, your setting is on. ;))
WHAT TO BRING
Bring your sweet self, any notes you want to share, and your favorite beverage. :)- YES RSVPs, if you can't make it, please take a moment to change your RSVP to NOT GOING asap. It is just a courteous thing to do. :)
** If you are new to Zoom, watch this video. Make sure to watch the video to the end. (A little over 5 minutes.) A senior does a great job of showing the various items you will want to know about. It is easy! Really. https://youtu.be/kh50kVaIdAY
- In Person High Tech Speed Dating - 40+Executive Suite, Long Beach, CA
I have been asked many times when I will host another speed dating event since it's been years. Well, THAT TIME HAS COME! This is not your standard speed dating event. This is HIGH-TECH meaning you will answer a few questions ahead of time and then be matched with women who fit your criteria whenever possible!
IF YOU ARE INTERESTED, PLEASE READ ALL THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM!
How does it work? The Little Gay Book's innovative technology allows you to tailor your event experience. You share some information beforehand, including age range, where you fall on the masculine-feminine spectrum and what your preferences are, if any, for your date. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random speed dating. Throughout the night, you will receive text messages directing you to the table where your next encounter awaits.
You will have five minutes to connect and then complete a few quick questions on your phone asking if you are interested in getting to know that person more either as a friend or a date. The technology will track your responses and match you accordingly. You must match in both directions to receive their contact information and then, VIOLA!
I am thrilled to be having my first partnership with Dr. Frankie Bashan of the Little Gay Book! Collaboration is where it's at! They host a lot of speed dating events in many different areas geared toward various demographics. This means that we are both reaching out to our crowds to draw in the perfect combination of participants, some you may know but lots you may not. That's the beauty of it.
I know that some of you say that you do not want to date for a variety of reasons and that you are perfectly happy alone. I say good for you. Nothing wrong with that. However, you can still come to make new connections and grow your community of friends, acquaintances and perhaps even for the purpose of business networking.
Having a few quality minutes with someone can give you a good sense of the person in front of you and whether you feel comfortable and have any common interests and values. If you are a feeling person, you can check out the vibe between you as well. Personally, I get just as excited meeting someone I really hit it off with, even if I am only interested in them as a friend. All relationships have to start somewhere, right? That attitude is a great way to approach this event.
This is a perfect event for those that are shy and feel awkward milling about in large groups because it is structured and everyone is there for the same reasons. I will make this fun and entertaining and on top of that, you will be enthusiastically greeted at the door and introduced around before we event start. You can show up early when the doors open at 6pm if you want some time to relax and warm up so to speak. COME ON....TAKE A CHANCE! Worse case scenario, you will have a fun evening, get some dancing in and go home!
Upstairs at the Executive Suite is an excellent venue for speed dating. It is spacious and the lighting is perfect. Your tickets gets you free entrance to the drag show at 9pm and dancing after that!
TICKETS: $35 in advance, $45 at the door
CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE YOUR EVENTBRITE TICKET
RSVPing here does not give you entrance. You must purchase your ticket on Eventbrite.SCHEDULE
6:00-6:30 pm Doors open- registration, intros, mingling, buy drinks
6:30-8:30 - Speed dating starts (please arrive by 6:15)
8:30-9:00 - Relax, unwind, visit (optional)
9:00-10:00 - Drag Show (optional)
10:00 on - Dancing (optional)Please arrive at 6pm to allow for parking, grabbing a drink and registration which could take some time depending on how long the line is. We would appreciate it if you do not come at the last minute so we don't disrupt the event.
FAQ:
Q: How can I connect with my matches after the event?
A: After the event, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, giving you the opportunity to take those promising connections to the next level.
Q: What should I do after the event ends?
A: We encourage you to stay after the event, mingle, and support the venue. It's a chance for great conversations, new friendships, and connections that continue on after our event is over. Sticking around can make the experience even more memorable.
Q: Are there any specific guidelines for attendees?
A: Yes, these collaborative speed dating events are open to lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer women including trans women.SCHEDULE
6:00 pm Doors open- casual introductions and mingling, registration
6:30-8:30 - Speed dating starts
8:30-9:00 - Relax, unwind, visit (optional)
9:00-10:00 - Drag Show (optional)
10:00 on - Dancing (optional)