What we’re about
Are you looking for fun social activities/meetups in Wellington and want to make new friends? Join and read more!
We are Hey mates - A platform that hosts fun in-person social events. Not like the ones that you’ve been in past; we really focus on delivering a great experience and creating a safe space where you can truly connect with others and have fun.
Don't take our word for it - feedback.heymates.com/wall
Our socials are PAID for a reason. We are offering value for people who are looking for:
- Great in-person experience.
- Inclusive and culturally open community.
- A space where you can truly connect with others, share stories and have fun - EVERY SINGLE TIME!
We exist for individuals who HAVEN'T had good experiences or found an inclusive space.
Some of the symptoms you might have experienced at other events:
- felt like an outsider - breaking into an existing group
- felt ignored and was just left to you to figure it out.
- people had specific views and beliefs (weren't open to other cultures or views)
- Host were too focused on actual activity vs making sure everyone was socially connected.
- the group was so big that you felt lost
- the overall experience was average or less than ideal.
Our key differentiator is EXPERIENCE and INCLUSION of cultures + Diversity:
- Events run by kind and trusted hosts
- Facilitated and co-ordinated events
- High confidence, 98% attendee show-up rate.
- Over 30% of users attend more than twice.
- Small groups, better outcomes. (max. 15 attendees per event)
- See Familiar faces and reconnect over repeat activities - build trust and long-term friendships.
If you're not finding an opportunity or an event/activity you love, host one and open yourself to meeting new people!
Hosting is Free with us - no need to pay $100+ to meetup subscriptions.
If you ask how follow these steps:
- Create an account: https://heymates.com/sign-up/
- Fill out this form to indicate what activity you would like to do: heymates.com/host-activity
- If you just want to talk, send us an email - info@heymates.com or text 0221860690. :)
If you have come this far? Thank you for reading. <3
Join an activity today and support our mission.
Have fun making new connections and quality friends.
See you out there!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- ANZAC Day - Board Games FridayWellington CBD, Wellington
Join us to play some easy, fun and interactive games. Not hard or long ones!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/wlgbg/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 $12.50 activity fee.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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Description: Want a wholesome night in with a bunch of new friends where you can play board games, have a chat and enjoy good food?
Join us to play some easy, fun, social and interactive games fortnightly. Not hard brain-frying long ones!We will play a few popular titles like Codenames, Anomia, Tsuro (easy, wonderful socializer games), and whichever ones group wants to play!
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FAQs:📌 Q: I'm bad at or don't like board games?
A: When I say board games, I don't mean Dungeons and Dragons (no shade!). We will be playing stuff like Codenames, Herd Mentality and other EASY to-pick-up games. And if you don't want to play, that's fine too, just come hang out :)📌 Q: Can I come alone?
A: Absolutely! In fact, most people actually come by themselves. The whole point is to meet new people and everyone is in the same boat so it's a very warm and welcoming environment.📌 Q: Are all welcome?
A: YES! All genders and age ranges are welcome (min. 18+).------------------------------------------------------------
RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Not open - Lead an activity, build your tribe (Free)Needs location
Hi there, we want to make hosting accessible to everyone as that's the stepping stone in building your tribe, on your schedule and convenience.
Use this form to host an activity: https://heymates.com/host-activity
If you are not ready to host don't want to host but have an idea.
- Suggest an activity: https://forms.gle/XFffCMooxPhcyJd37
Want to chat? Send me a text on 0221860690 and we can arrange a time.
Cheers,
Dhruv
Founder, Hey mates--------------------------------------------------------
📌 What is Hey mates?
We are an alternative platform to Meetup and other social events sites.
Hey mates helps people make new friends over in-person social activities. Unlike ordinary meetups, we thoughtfully create each activity and experience where individuals share moments, build friendships, and find a sense of belonging.
📌 How we are different?
We’re not just events platform, we run our events with intent, inclusion and focus to enable connections, spark conversations and create a safe space helping people make new friends.
### Core Values
- Connection First – Friendships are our priority
- Inclusivity – Everyone is welcome
- Fun & Engaging – Socializing should be enjoyable
- Authenticity – Real people, real interactions
- Community-Driven – Built by and for our members
Our mission: To combat loneliness by building communities where authentic connections thrive over fun activities.
Hope that fuels your curiosity! <3
See you at an event!
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Not open - Indoor Rock ClimbingWellington CBD, Wellington
Join us for a laid-back bouldering session! (all levels welcome)
👉 Join the activity here: heymates.com/wellington/indoor-rock-climbing
😵 This is a paid activity, RSVP is managed via Hey mates.
🧗 Bouldering costs $27 for gym pass, paid directly at the venue.
✅ Meeting spot and Host info will be shared with confirmed attendees.
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From Josiah: Hey everyone! Whether you’re new to bouldering or have been scaling walls for a while, come along for a relaxed climb with a friendly group! It’s all about enjoying the climb and connecting with others.
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
- 20-30s Gals Book Club - LAUNCHWellington CBD, Wellington
Looking to unwind, connect, and find new reads? Join our Women’s Book Club!
🎟️ RSVP here: heymates.com/wellington-central/womens-book-club/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 $6.25 activity fee.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Annika! ⭐
Come hang out with other women who love books, laughs, and great company — the perfect way to ease into your weekend!
We’ll dive into a mix of engaging, thought-provoking, and feel-good reads — with room for everyone to share their thoughts (or just listen and enjoy your coffee — no pressure!).
Our first session we’ll learn more about what everyone likes to read and decide on a book that we can read over the next month!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
