What we’re about
This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.
Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man — and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love — you're in the right place. 😎
I run powerful workshops and events designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention — so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞
We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep — on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating — so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰
If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.
Here’s how to go deeper:-
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Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success — and how to date in a way that leads to real love.
About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞
My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣 — and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!
If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person — I’d love to support you. 🤗
Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide✨
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Gents... are you tired of feeling stuck in dating?
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If you’ve ever felt anxious approaching women...
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Or worried that you’re not the kind of guy they want...
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Or maybe you’ve found yourself over-chasing, only to end up feeling undervalued...
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You’re not alone.
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I've worked with men who've gone through the same things, and have helped them to see exactly where dating hasn't been working for them...and what they need to do instead...
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...resulting in massive changes in their love lives...from finally finding the right partner (and getting engaged) to walking away from a relationship that was draining them, instead of making them feel happy and fulfilled...and creating healthy boundaries for future relationships.
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Real transformations and results, and not from games or gimmicks.
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As with them, the problem isn’t who you are – it’s how you see yourself.
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And the good news? That can be changed.
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I’ve put together a 5-part mini-course with some of the the teachings and tools that I've used to help other men like you:- Overcome anxiety and build unshakeable confidence
- Stop over-chasing by valuing yourself first
- Get clear on what you want so you can date with intention
- Attract the right woman by being authentic and aligned
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If you’re ready to shift your mindset and see real changes then check out the mini-course by clicking this link.
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I look forward to hearing about your results. :) - How to Attract the Right Man (Mini-Course)Link visible for attendees
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You’re an incredible, high-achieving woman. You’ve built a great life — you have good friends, a thriving career or business, and a busy, fulfilling lifestyle. But when it comes to love?
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That’s the one thing that still isn’t falling into place.
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You’ve tried: putting yourself out there, dating, reading the books, listening to the podcasts.
You’re attracting men, even getting into relationships… but none of them last. And honestly? You’re tired of another promising connection turning into heartache.
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You start wondering: What am I doing wrong? Is it me? Why does this keep happening?
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I get it — because I lived it.
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For 17 years, I went through the cycle of unsuccessful relationships, situationships, and disappointments. And it wasn’t until I got real help and uncovered my blind spots that things finally changed.
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I realised I was standing in my own way. The men I attracted—and the relationships I settled for—were a reflection of what I believed about myself, love, and relationships.
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And once I shifted those beliefs? Everything changed.
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I became clear on what I truly wanted, raised my standards, and started attracting emotionally available men — until I finally met my Dream Guy. And now? I'm in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life. 🥰
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That’s why I created the "How to Attract the Right Man" Mini-Course—so you don’t have to waste years figuring it out like I did.
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Inside this course, you’ll learn how to:
✅ Uncover what’s unconsciously blocking you from attracting the right partner.✅ Get super clear on what you truly desire so you stop wasting time on the wrong men.
✅ Attract the kind of partner you actually want—by becoming your most aligned self to that ideal partner.
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Click here to learn more.
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Even if you’re skeptical, you owe it to yourself to at least try a new approach. Add this to everything else you’ve been learning and see how it shifts things for you.
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Wishing you love.T 🤍
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P.S. Imagine never again having to wonder if the guy you’re seeing is "the one" — because you just know. Let’s get you there. Click here to sign up now. - 5 Mistakes Women & Men Make When Looking for Love (and how to overcome them)Link visible for attendees
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What if the biggest blocks to love were patterns you didn’t even know you were repeating?
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On the journey to finding a fulfilling relationship, many of us fall into habits and behaviours that feel normal… but actually keep love at arm’s length.
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In these powerful pre-recorded trainings, you’ll learn:
✨ The most common dating mistakes women make
✨ The most common mistakes men make
✨ The key patterns that sabotage love — and how to break them
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These insights matter. Why?
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Because repeating the same patterns can lead to ongoing frustration, heartbreak, and unfulfilling connections.
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You'll walk away with practical strategies to shift your dating approach, deepen your self-awareness, and create space for a relationship that truly fits.
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🎁 Plus, you’ll get a bonus Conscious Dating Guide — packed with practical tips to help you date more intentionally and attract the right kind of partner.
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Click here to access the free training and guide.
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Join my free Conscious Dating Telegram Channel and share your insights with me. I'd love to hear!
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Look forward to seeing you there! 😊🤍
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Gents... are you tired of feeling stuck in dating?
.
.
If you’ve ever felt anxious approaching women...
.
.
Or worried that you’re not the kind of guy they want...
.
.
Or maybe you’ve found yourself over-chasing, only to end up feeling undervalued...
.
.
You’re not alone.
.
.
I've worked with men who've gone through the same things, and have helped them to see exactly where dating hasn't been working for them...and what they need to do instead...
.
.
...resulting in massive changes in their love lives...from finally finding the right partner (and getting engaged) to walking away from a relationship that was draining them, instead of making them feel happy and fulfilled...and creating healthy boundaries for future relationships.
.
.
Real transformations and results, and not from games or gimmicks.
.
.
As with them, the problem isn’t who you are – it’s how you see yourself.
.
.
And the good news? That can be changed.
.
.
I’ve put together a 5-part mini-course with some of the the teachings and tools that I've used to help other men like you:- Overcome anxiety and build unshakeable confidence
- Stop over-chasing by valuing yourself first
- Get clear on what you want so you can date with intention
- Attract the right woman by being authentic and aligned
.
.
If you’re ready to shift your mindset and see real changes then check out the mini-course by clicking this link.
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I look forward to hearing about your results. :)
