About us
Shy Philosophers is a welcoming discussion group for thoughtful people who enjoy exploring big ideas in a safe setting. Each session centres on a philosophical topic, and consists of a structured, open-ended discussion. No background in philosophy is required—just curiosity and a willingness to listen and share ideas.
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Philo means love, Sophy means wisdom and so it means "love of wisdom" and literally pursues it.
In doing so it has given birth to several academia studies that are still present today from over two thousand years ago. It covers everything from metaphysics to morality to linguistics to gender studies and beyond. The primary objective is to simply define the simplicity of 'what is' within discussions and views. Those who travel in this void experience greater depths of insight and understanding.
At Shy Philosophers, our humble objective is much the same. We come together in a love of wisdom, seeking insightful conversation and clever company. It's a great space were people come together to share their thoughts ideas around abstract concepts, contentious, thoughtful, and for some irrational ideas about life. The idea is to not dominate one's views but to reasonably questions oneself and another's through reason, belief and your own inner conviction to access a greater depth in knowledge and wisdom collectively..
All meetups will have a theme. Each meetup theme will vary from different philosophy period's from classical to modern, and may even fall upon current philosophical events.
• It's a fun experience and the conversations inevitably lead down a journey that is not predicted!
• This is an ideal space to learn about debates, how to create them, and why some crumble and some stand.
• Discover subtle differences in other people's views
• Learn about yourself and others
• Gaining the skills of rebuilding your views and making your point as 'bulletproof' as possible in the moment!
• Please join us even if you want to observe. The gift of listening is always welcomed! Please let the facilitator know that you would like to listen so we are aware of your desired choice.
At each meet-up we are asked to collectively participate in our code of ethics:
Bring your thoughts. Please remember we come in a space of friends where we share ideas and absorb them through listening. There is no urgency or battle to be won. The need for better arguer's is to not dominate but to celebrate the ability to be present in the conversation through honesty and vulnerability. On the main page under Shy Philosophers check the mini clip provided by Daniel Cohen for further understanding.
Code of ethics for each Shy Philosopher Night!
- The group conversation is "basketball style" - where we pass the ball or time to speak around to each other briefly as if we are all on the same team cooperatively. Instead of "ping pong style" where only two people go back and forth adversarially, please be mindful to this metaphor to aim for basketball, not ping pong.
- Share your relevant point in 3 mins or less (each time).
- No Ad Hominems - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=en7hi9LjCdU
- We are proud that we are respectful and open-minded to the ideas of others. (I.E waiting for your turn, mindful comments) please help us keep it that way.
- Comment on the point. And naturally refrain from commenting on the person it can become an ad hominem (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/ad+hominem)
Boundaries for Organizers and Meetup Facilitators -
- No event spamming - this means no listing of reoccurring meetings that shows up "every week of every month all year" ongoing. This clutters the page.
- Limit is to list meetings only within the next Eight weeks. For Co-Organizers and Organizers please check-in with each other if you are gonna add new organizers to the first before any change of roles are handed out.
3)This is a local group for those residing in Vancouver. This is not for advertising your business.
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For additional point of view on the groups space that we create together;
please view Daniel Cohen's discussion in the need for better arguers. Skip to 7:30 for the meaty part! =)
http://www.ted.com/talks/daniel_h_cohen_for_argument_s_sake
Disclaimer - This group prohibits advertising businesses, programs, profit organizations, and other platforms/services of any kinds from other members and organizers.
This group is a volunteer community only group. With zero ambitions to profit and no entrepreneurial pursuits.
This is for the local community and by the local community, that is all.
Upcoming events
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Shy Philosophers on Anxiety
Spartacus Books, 1983 Commercial Dr #101, Vancouver, BC, CALet’s consider:
- What is anxiety? What distinguishes anxiety from fear, stress, or sadness?
- What is anxiety for? Why might humans have evolved the capacity for anxiety? When does it serve us well, and when does it begin to work against us?
- At what point does healthy caution become excessive worry, and who gets to decide where that line lies?
- How should we relate to anxious thoughts? Should we challenge them, accept them, ignore them, investigate them, or treat each differently depending on the situation?
- How should anxiety influence our decisions? Should we avoid situations that make us anxious, or is growth often found by moving toward discomfort? How do we distinguish unnecessary suffering from meaningful challenge?
- Kierkegaard described anxiety as “the dizziness of freedom.” Does having more choices make us happier, or does it create new forms of anxiety? Are there situations where having fewer options is actually liberating?
- What role does modern society play in anxiety? Are people today more anxious because of social media, constant news, economic pressures, information overload, etc., or have humans always been this anxious in different ways?
- If you could permanently remove your capacity for anxiety, would you? How might your relationships, ambitions, morality, and sense of self change? What might be gained—and what might be lost?
No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can watch or listen to these podcast episodes:
- Hidden Brain – “A Better Way to Worry”
- https://www.hiddenbrain.org/podcast/a-better-way-to-worry/
- Philosophize This! – Episode #079: Kierkegaard on Anxiety
- https://www.philosophizethis.org/podcast/episode-079-kierkegaard-on-anxiety
Thanks to Spartacus Books for generously opening up their space for us! If you're able, please support them with a small donation (suggested: $2), or with a purchase if one of their titles catches your fancy.
Shy Philosopher Night Procedure and Code of Ethics:
1. Discussion Style
We aim for a cooperative flow, like passing a ball among teammates rather than engaging in back-and-forth debates. Please share the “ball” so everyone has a voice.
2. Brief Points (2-3 Minutes)
Keep points concise so we can hear a variety of perspectives. Occasional exceptions may come up naturally, but our goal is inclusivity.
3. No Crosstalk
Respect the speaker’s time without interjecting or questioning mid-speech. If you’d like to add something, simply raise your hand and the facilitator will guide the flow.
4. Avoid Ad Hominem Remarks
Focus critiques on ideas, actions, or beliefs—not people. For example, say “This idea could have certain impacts” rather than “You’re wrong.” This ensures a respectful environment.
5. Respectful Engagement
As we are guests in someone’s home, let’s maintain a high level of respect for the space and one another. Mindfulness, patience, and courtesy are essential to making this gathering comfortable and enjoyable for all.
6. Cancellation Courtesy
If your plans change and you’re unable to attend, please let us know at least a day in advance by canceling your RSVP. Since space is limited, early notice helps ensure that someone else interested can join in your place. We really appreciate your understanding and help in making this a smooth, inclusive experience for everyone.Looking forward to seeing you there!
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