
What we’re about
Speed Dating Events for Lesbian/Bi/Trans Singles and Poly, Kinky, and Queer People of all types
💞 If you’re frustrated with dating apps and are looking to meet real people in real-time, then speed dating events with Litte Gay Book are for you!
Whether you meet up with us at one of our In-Person events or join us in our Zoom Room for one of our online events we get you face-to-face with like-minded individuals for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.
Everyone who attends is looking to connect, and there’s the potential for lots of fun, great conversations, date and friend matches. Come check one out!
Lesbian/Bi/Trans Speed Dating events are open to all lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks. They are a trans-welcoming space, and intolerance will not be permitted. No cis-men, please.
Our Poly, Kinky, and Queer events are open to people of all genders and all sexualities.
How Speed Dating works:
You’ll need a smartphone to share what type of matches you’re interested in and for leaving your feedback. Our simple smartphone technology allows us to tailor the event to the age and “type” of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine spectrum, along with their age range. The algorithm determines the best matches possible, allowing for a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.
For Online Speed Dating you’ll meet your matches in intimate break-out rooms, so you’ll need a separate device with the Zoom app. In-Person events are hosted at our favorite neighborhood bars and restaurants.
After getting to know each other during five-minute rounds you’ll use our matching technology to privately share whether you think they’re second date material, a new friend, or a business connection. The next day you’ll receive the contact info of anyone you matched with.
With Little Gay Book You Can Also…
- Join Our Lesbian Matchmaking database -
- https://littlegaybook.com/create-a-profile-now/
- Level up your love life with our Single, Sexy & Queer Dating Program - https://littlegaybook.com/single-sexy-queer/
- Participate in a Curated Mini-Dates Event -
- https://littlegaybook.com/curated-mini-dates/
- Get Dating & Relationship Coaching from Dr. Frankie - https://littlegaybook.com/coaching/
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See all- Network event159 attendees from 21 groups hostingOnline WEST Coast 40 + Lesbian, Bi, Queer & Trans Speed DatingLink visible for attendees
Looking for fun, romance, and connection on the West Coast? Join us for an exciting evening of Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer Speed Dating!
Want to meet other Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles from the West Coast? Join Little Gay Book, the nation's largest LGBTQ+ Matchmaking Service, for an exciting evening of online speed dating. This event is designed for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer and non-binary folks.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
Join us online on Thursday, April 24th from 5:30 - 7:00 PM PDT.
Event Timing:
- Newcomers are encouraged to arrive at 5:00 PM PDT for orientation.
- Please ensure you are checked in by 5:25 PM PDT.
- The event will commence promptly at 5:30 PM PDT.
- Note: Late arrivals cannot participate in the speed dating session.
Meet Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles on the West Coast.
Online Speed Dating events with Little Gay Book are a super fun way to meet new people from the comfort and safety of your home and we hope you'll join us. We combine the power of two different technologies to make our events happen. You’ll go on approx. ten 5-minute dates in private Break Out Rooms in the Zoom app. Your matches are based on the algorithm of our Speed Match Software. There’s lively group conversation between each date, allowing attendees to get to know one another even better.
We remove the obstacles to getting face-to-face with someone new and have a ton of fun doing it. This is a great chance to meet other people who are also looking to connect, and these events are filled with great conversations, smiles, and laughter. Lots of date matches and friend matches - come check it out!
👇 Q: How the matching technology works:
Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random, public speed dating.📱 Using simple smartphone technology, we tailor the event to the age and “type” of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine expression spectrum, along with their age range. The algorithm determines the best matches possible, allowing for a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.
💻 The fun all happens in Zoom Break Out Rooms, and after each 5-minute round, you add feedback about your date - Friend, Date, Business, or No Connection). The next day you’ll receive the contact info for your matches.
➡ You will need either a computer, tablet, or smartphone, the Zoom app, and an internet connection to participate in this event. Having both your phone and a computer is ideal 💻
💞 If you’re frustrated with dating apps and want to meet real people in real time, this event is for you! In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face-to-face, with real people for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!đź’•
đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
- Network event153 attendees from 21 groups hostingOnline Femme for Femme 35+ Speed Dating EventsLink visible for attendees
35+ femme singles! Tired of the apps! Make flirty or friendly connections at an evening of Femme for Femme Mixer and Speed Dating online.
Tired of the usual dating apps? Looking for a fun and effortless way to meet new Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles? Join Little Gay Book, the nation's largest LGBTQ+ Matchmaking Service, for an exciting online mixer followed by online speed dating the second half of the event!
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
Join us on Thursday, May 1st from 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM PDT online.
Event Timing:
Check-in will begin at 5:00 PM PDT
Please arrive no later than 5:25 PM PDT
The event will begin promptly at 5:30 PM PDT
(Late arrivals will not be permitted to participate in speed dating).Meet Ages 35+ Femme Lesbian, Bi, and Trans singles from all over the US.
Online Speed Dating events with Little Gay Book are a super fun way to meet new people from the comfort and safety of your home and we hope you'll join us. We combine the power of two different technologies to make our events happen. You’ll go on approx. ten 5-minute dates in private Break Out Rooms in the Zoom app. Your matches are based on the algorithm of our Speed Match Software. There’s lively group conversation between each date, allowing attendees to get to know one another even better.
We remove the obstacles to getting face-to-face with someone new and have a ton of fun doing it. This is a great chance to meet other people who are also looking to connect, and these events are filled with great conversations, smiles, and laughter. Lots of date matches and friend matches - come check it out!
👇 Q: How the matching technology works:
Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random, public speed dating.📱 Using simple smartphone technology, we tailor the event to the age and “type” of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine expression spectrum, along with their age range. The algorithm determines the best matches possible, allowing for a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.
💻 The fun all happens in Zoom Break Out Rooms, and after each 5-minute round, you add feedback about your date - Friend, Date, Business, or No Connection). The next day you’ll receive the contact info for your matches.
➡ You will need either a computer, tablet, or smartphone, the Zoom app, and an internet connection to participate in this event. Having both your phone and a computer is ideal 💻
💞 If you’re frustrated with dating apps and want to meet real people in real time, this event is for you! In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face-to-face, with real people for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!đź’•
đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
- Network event1 attendee from 2 groups hostingDr. Frankie Takes New York: Flatiron Edition230 FIFTH Rooftop Garden Bar and Restaurant, New York, NY$20.00
Flirt with a view! Join Dr. Frankie & Little Gay Book for rooftop speed dating & mingling in NYC’s Flatiron. Sparks guaranteed!
It’s rooftop season, and connection is in the air. Join Little Gay Book, the nation’s largest LGBTQ+ matchmaking service, for an extraordinary evening of speed dating, skyline views, and spontaneous connections—right in the heart of NYC’s Flatiron District.
Hosted at the iconic 230 Fifth Rooftop, this high-energy event brings together Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles for an experience that blends real-time chemistry with curated, tech-powered matching.
Date: Tuesday, May 6th
Venue: 230 Fifth Rooftop – 1150 Broadway, New York, NY 10001🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
Schedule:
Check-in: 6:30 PM
Speed Dating: 7:00 – 8:00 PM
Rooftop Mingle with Dr. Frankie: 8:00 PM
(late arrivals will not be permitted to participate in speed dating).*Two drink minimum required
### Why You’ll Love This Event
✨ Real People. Real Connections. This isn’t just another night out—this is where intention meets excitement. Our events are designed for those who are ready to engage with other vibrant, thoughtful LGBTQ folks.
✨ Tech-Enhanced Matching. We use cutting-edge matchmaking software developed by Dr. Frankie herself, leveraging her 20+ years of LGBTQ+ relationship expertise. Your preferences (age range, gender expression, and more) help us create customized matches—so every round is meaningful.
✨ Dr. Frankie IRL. After your dating rounds, hang out, sip something fabulous, and mingle with Dr. Frankie on the rooftop. This is your chance to connect with the heart and mind behind the matchmaking magic.
✨ A Rooftop With a View. Whether you're sharing laughs over drinks or locking eyes under the city lights, this venue sets the tone for something unforgettable.👇 Q: How the matching technology works:
Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random, public speed dating.During the event, you'll engage in exhilarating 5-minute rounds of conversation with potential matches. After each interaction, you can provide valuable feedback on your date, indicating whether they are a friend, a potential for a second date, a valuable business connection, or if there was no immediate connection. Our proprietary smartphone speed-matching technology ensures that your preferences and feedback are carefully considered.
📲 Connect with Your Matches:
The excitement doesn't end when the event does! The next day, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, allowing you to take those promising connections to the next level. Whether you find an amazing date match or establish new friendships, this is your chance to forge meaningful connections with others who are also seeking to connect.Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to meet incredible individuals who share your interests and aspirations. Join us for an evening filled with excitement, laughter, and the potential for meaningful connections. We can't wait to see you there!
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
If you have any questions or need further assistance, please don't hesitate to reach out to our friendly team at events@littlegaybook.com or (510) 254-9105
đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking here to purchase a ticket on Eventbrite.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
- Network event153 attendees from 21 groups hostingOnline Lesbian, Bi, Trans and Queer Speed Dating EventLink visible for attendees
A lot can happen in 5 minutes... Connect with LGBTQ+ singles for an evening of online speed dating.
Want to meet other Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles? Join Little Gay Book, the nation's largest LGBTQ+ Matchmaking Service, for an exciting evening of online speed dating. This event is designed for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer and non-binary folks.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
Join us online on Friday, May 9th from 5:30 - 7:30 PM PDT.
Event Timing:
- Newcomers are encouraged to arrive at 5:00 PM PDT for orientation.
- Please ensure you are checked in by 5:25 PM PDT.
- The event will commence promptly at 5:30 PM PDT.
- Note: Late arrivals cannot participate in the speed dating session.
Meet Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles from the US.
Online Speed Dating events with Little Gay Book are a super fun way to meet new people from the comfort and safety of your home and we hope you'll join us. We combine the power of two different technologies to make our events happen. You’ll go on approx. ten 5-minute dates in private Break Out Rooms in the Zoom app. Your matches are based on the algorithm of our Speed Match Software. There’s lively group conversation between each date, allowing attendees to get to know one another even better.
We remove the obstacles to getting face-to-face with someone new and have a ton of fun doing it. This is a great chance to meet other people who are also looking to connect, and these events are filled with great conversations, smiles, and laughter. Lots of date matches and friend matches - come check it out!
👇 Q: How the matching technology works:
Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random, public speed dating.📱 Using simple smartphone technology, we tailor the event to the age and “type” of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine expression spectrum, along with their age range. The algorithm determines the best matches possible, allowing for a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.
💻 The fun all happens in Zoom Break Out Rooms, and after each 5-minute round, you add feedback about your date - Friend, Date, Business, or No Connection). The next day you’ll receive the contact info for your matches.
➡ You will need either a computer, tablet, or smartphone, the Zoom app, and an internet connection to participate in this event. Having both your phone and a computer is ideal 💻
💞 If you’re frustrated with dating apps and want to meet real people in real time, this event is for you! In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face-to-face, with real people for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking here.
RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!đź’•
đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
Past events (235)
See all- Network event152 attendees from 24 groups hostingOnline East Coast 40 + Lesbian, Bi, Queer & Trans Speed DatingThis event has passed$15.00