What we’re about
We have now returned to face to face meetings every Monday. Join this friendly and diverse group of men to socialise and learn skills to help improve mental health and well being.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Exploring Intimate Touch - Massage Workshop For MenEffra Space, London£59.00
Immerse yourself in the transformative power of touch, intimacy, and connection at this guided massage workshop. Experience the joy of playful and sensual connection with other men. This event will proceed even if there are no RSVPs as we welcome between 18-22 men each month.
"Nick creates a safe, positive space for exploring human connection through touch. I felt uplifted, seen, and valued. I highly recommend his sessions to anyone starting or continuing their journey through Tantra." – Paul
CLICK HERE TO BOOK YOUR PLACE A Meetup RSVP does not reserve your spot, so be sure to click this link to secure your place.
Immerse yourself in the world of sensual touch as you work in pairs using a combination of Neo-Tantra bodywork and traditional Tantra practices from the Tibetan Buddhist lineage and Shaivism. You'll move to a new paring every 20 minutes, so over the workshop you'll work with around 7 men.
To culminate the experience we'll transition from pairs to groups of three, allowing you to enjoy the unique pleasure of a four-hand massage as two men massage you simultaneously and you relax into this touch.
What to Expect:
- Experience a warm and inclusive environment for exploring intimacy through touch
- Enjoy giving and receiving slow, sensual and erotic touch
- Learn breathwork and sensual touch techniques for genital massage and energy circulation.
- Practice Tantric breathwork and visualization to enhance the flow of Prana (life force energy) through your body.
- Participate in paired and group activities, with nudity and genital touch as integral components.
Our workshop is designed for both newcomers and returning participants, inviting men of all backgrounds to connect in a safe, sober, and nurturing environment.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK YOUR PLACE A Meetup RSVP does not reserve your spot, so be sure to click this link to secure your place.
"Nick's workshops are a glorious affirmation and celebration of our bodies, our sexuality, and the importance of caring touch. His facilitation is wonderful—gentle, open, and encouraging, creating a wonderfully accepting atmosphere." – Chris
Meet the Teacher:
Nick Kientsch draws upon his unique background as a former celibate Buddhist monk of 7 years and 30 years of meditation experience. After leaving the monastery, he has studied with various Tantra and sacred sexuality teachers to connect more with the bliss of free flowing prana energy and he shares this through his work so that others can feel more empowered and free of shame.Through these workshops, Nick shares his invaluable wisdom to help you cultivate a more profound, joyful connection with your body and sexuality.
Supported by Joey and Pinto who are both experince masseurs and Tantra practitioners.
Event Details:
- Date: Saturday, Saturday 26th April
- Time: 2:00 PM – 7:00 PM (doors open at 1:45 PM)
- Location: Effra Space, 21 Effra Parade, London SW2 1PX
- Nearest Tube: Brixton
Fee:
- Full price: £59
- Reduced fee tickets for unemployed/students or those facing financial hardship: £29
CLICK HERE TO BOOK YOUR PLACE – A Meetup RSVP does not reserve your spot, so be sure to click this link to secure your place.
"Nick holds such a beautiful and welcoming space that you come away from feeling blissful and connected to both your self and others. I'd recommend this workshop to anybody interested."
Join us on the last Saturday of each month in 2025 by clicking here and selecting the date you'd like to book.
- London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
- London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
- Tibetan Tummo - Inner Fire Tantric MeditationLink visible for attendees£89.00
Breath, movement, energy. Connect with your body's core blissful energy through this ancient Tantric meditation system that channels your life force energy (Prana) through your chakras and the energy channels of your body, clearing away blocks and allowing a free flowing blissful energy through your system.
Rooted in the ancient wisdom of Tibetan Buddhist Tantra meditation this transformative practice connects you with the inner fire of Prana (life force energy). Tummo is the foundation practice in the system known as The Six Dharmas of Naropa, a Vajrayana system of Buddhist practice.
This improved flow of prana:
· Enhances mental clarity and focus
· Promotes physical and mental relaxation
· Improves stress management and resilienceTo see an example of the practice click here
Over four weeks each session introduces you to a new layer of the practice. Slowly building up to the full practice.
ONLY 10 PLACES
Time: 8 – 9.30pm UK time
Cost: £89
Dates: Wednesday 7th, 14th, 21st and 28th May.
Location: Zoom
About the teacher:
Nick's meditation journey began aged 21 and includes 12 years of celibacy and 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Upon leaving the monastery aged 35 Nick arrived in London where he continues to explore how to live a fulfilling and joyful life through a mix of therapeutic methods, massage, meditation and Tantra trainings. He leads the London Gay Men’s Mindfulness group (meeting every Monday) as well as Tantra massage workshops and other wellbeing events.
