What we’re about
We are a select group, comprised of monogamous couples, married or unmarried, who believe that life is meant to be lived and lived fully. It's not called existing, it's called LIVING! Your hosts are a long time married monogamous couple living a 24/7 Loving FLR for over 17 years.
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IMPORTANT! This is NOT a swingers group - if that’s your thing, more power to you, but if you’re here looking for that - this is not the group to hookup
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A FLR is when women lead in their relationships and men recognize the wisdom and strengths women have happy deferring to them. We see this in everyday situations … business, schools, healthcare and home.
This is not a new concept, it just hasn’t been in the mainstream, but has been gaining momentum over the past decade. Many men want women to lead in their personal lives, some just don’t know how to express it and women don’t know how to embrace it. Surely you’ve heard the term “Happy Wife Happy Life” and in a Female Led Relationship this is exactly what happens. Couples are closer, arguments are fewer and cooperation, happiness, romance and passion are abundant!
The man in the relationship isn’t necessarily submissive to the Woman, he simply recognizes that there are areas where he is weaker and she is stronger and rather than be the he-man who is stubborn and acts like he knows everything, he acknowledges her for her wisdom and authority. How many times has a husband had to re-do something because he didn’t listen to his wife in the first place. Well, do what she tells you to do and you won’t have to re-do it! Can there be instances where the man acts as a submissive, yes and it is up to each individual person on what that looks like in their relationship. Not all FLR's involve some sort of kink or BDSM.
He is not weak, in fact he is a strong dominant man, especially in the vanilla world, but when he comes home it is as the strong knight who happily defers to his Queen, his Goddess and sees to her needs and seeks to make her life as she desires.
A Female Led Relationship is the safest relationship for a Woman. In a FLR She sets the boundaries, She make the rules and She has the final say; while he loves and supports Her in that role. In any other relationship, Women do not enjoy that kind of freedom or safety. Wives often have to nag their husbands to do the smallest of tasks and then end up so frustrated that they just do it themselves.
How's your sex life? In a FLR it's about HER pleasure and making sure that She enjoys herself. It's a woman feeling the freedom to say "that doesn't work for me, do this instead" and he does. Simple as that. But it's not just her sex life that's better, his is too! Some husbands have said they feel like they're in their 20's again. More energy, more drive, more focused, not only on their personal relationship, but in overall life.
In an antiquated world, women, even those in powerful corporate positions are unsatisfied in their personal lives, in their sex lives and many work their asses off at work and then do so again at home until they collapse at the end of the night feeling exhausted and unsatisfied.(Including their sex life) This doesn't happen in a FLR.
A FLR is a functional model for any Woman who wants more control over her happiness and pleasure while having less strife in their relationships. It works, many Women are enjoying this life with their men. If you're just starting out and curious you're in luck! Your hosts are a long time married couple who have been living in a Loving Female Led Relationship for 17 years.
Many men actually enjoy when women “boss them around” and usually giggle when their wives raise their voices and tell them to do something in an authoritative manner, as they reply “Yes Ma’am” and scamper away to do the deed she desires. It’s natural for them to care for a woman and a FLR creates an even deeper and more rich relationship. It’s a relationship that is emotionally satisfying and intimate to both parties. It is very erotic!
Besides … isn’t it about time that women ran things in this world, look at the job men have done. It begins in our relationships at home!
If you are living such a relationship, just starting out, or just curious and would like to know more, we would love to have you join us. If you’re seeking fun, happy people to enjoy life with, come meet us! Let's enjoy happy hours, dinners, art shows, theatre, dancing and more!
Most events will be kept small, 8-10 people. First to confirm their RSVP gets on the list. No shows are frowned upon and repeated no shows will result in being uninvited.
