What we’re about
Welcome to the grass roots, people-powered, community calendar of events for the Tantra Community in Las Vegas!
There are several important differences between this and most other Meetups. The most important difference is that ALL COMMUNITY MEMBERS CAN CREATE AND ANNOUNCE MEETUP EVENTS - completely without organizer approval.
That's right. You heard me right.
EVERY SINGLE COMMUNITY MEMBER can post ANY EVENT you like on the new Community Calendar - any time you want - without any organizer approval whatsoever - And you can even announce it yourself immediately the entire community without approval as well.
Here is - step by step - how to create a grass roots Meetup event the Community Calendar:
1. Join the Community.
2. Go to the 'Let's Meetup and...' prompt to suggest and add Meetups on the Meetup Group's home page
3. Members may add Meetups by filling out the 'Let's Meetup and...' form
4. Meetups added by members are turned into official Meetups immediately.
5. Member-added Meetups with a date selected will appear on the Calendar
6. Member-added Meetups without a date selected will appear only on the 'Upcoming' Meetups list on the Meetup Group's home page
7. The member who adds the Meetup may choose to announce the Meetup to the Meetup Group's members imnediately and completely without organizer approval.
Finally, the community mailing list is completely unmoderated so that ALL community members can reach the entire community! All you have to do is send a message to the mailing list and it will reach the entire community - without needing any moderator approval.
These are powerful community building tools. Please use them responsibly.
This is our community. Let's nurture and care for it.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Awaken As Eros An Erotic Laboratory w/ Monique Darling and Reid MihalkoNeeds location
RSVP https://www.eventbrite.com/e/awaken-as-eros-an-erotic-laboratory-w-monique-darling-and-reid-mihalko-tickets-974387889407
Awaken as Eros: An Erotic Laboratory
“It’s not selfish to put yourself first—it’s self-full.” ~Iyanla Vanzant
*Eros*: In Greek mythology, Eros is the god of love and sxxual desire. The term represents passion and attraction, embodying intense emotional and physical connections.
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a transformative weeklong retreat to explore your deepest desires. This immersive experience will help you break free from societal constraints and discover what you truly want in a highly curated environment.
There are so many erotic and sxxual spaces being offered in our communities, the challenge is many of them are not trauma informed. They use a sledgehammer to make a point, and often the facilitators are using the containers to fill up their own Eros tanks. Reid and I have crafted an event where you get to wake up your Eros. Subtlety, integrity, communication, and accountability are all pillars of this work for us, and we are conscious of coming into the container full, so we can serve you, not the other way around.
This retreat is designed to help you express your Eros without shame or hesitation, no matter your age, size, gender, or orientation. Dive into sensual anatomy, bedroom skills, and erotic demos. We will cover shame, guilt, the soul mate trap, dating your species, boundaries, and permission to be yourself. Engage in powerful rituals. Learn about speed rejection, pressure play, and create your own menu of desires during research and development sessions to try out anything and everything that interests you.
In this highly tailored environment, you can release body shame and rewire rejection programming. Touch the shame, guilt, fear, and belief systems that hold you back from imagining what you really desire. If you can’t even imagine, no wonder you don’t have the skills to ask for it!
Key Highlights:
- *Discover Erotic Self-Expression*: Explore Eros and intimacy with minimal drama and maximum pleasure.
- *Overcome Sxxual Shame*: Replace shame with unbridled pleasure and aliveness.
- *Communicate Desires Effectively*: Learn to ask for what you want and handle rejections gracefully.
- *Engage in Powerful Rituals*: Participate in activities that help you explore your Eros in a caring environment with expert guidance. Learn to touch one another naked, with reverence, and begin to unravel unworthiness so you can truly ask for what you want in the bedroom and beyond.
-**Hone Your Listening (and Ability To Hear) Your Body and the Bodies of Others)
- *Pressure Play: Harnessing Your Pelvic Floor for Greater Health, Pleasure, and Bedroom Prowess!*: Learn how the muscles and ligaments in your pelvis work like ropes and pulleys to enhance pleasure, arousal, and body awareness. Activate your pelvic floor to boost bedroom skills, ease pelvic pain, and improve overall health.
-**Trauma and Repair
Learn how to hold compassionate space for lovers and yoruself when trauma and projection show up, and how not to deflect or attack but take steps towards resilience and repair.
Awaken as Love is an evolutionary movement happening around the world. Founded by one of my best friends, James Stevenson. Awaken as Eros is proud to be sponsored and co organized by Awaken as Love. I, Monique, am a lead faculty, and am awed in the ways that AAL has shaped, transformed and integrated my life these past 7 years, and I'm extremely excited to be leading an offshoot of it that combines Eros with Integrity and Evolution and Integration
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Logistics:
When: May 7-May 14, 2024
Where: Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
The Main House ~ Luxury, private courtyard with heated saltwater pool and hotub.
Lovely Condos walking distance to house to share with other participants. All in a gated community right on the shore of Cabo San Lucas. Full kitchens, two bathrooms, washer/dryer, plus snorkels and beach stuff in every condo.
First come first served for room and bed choice. Some singles and a few shared queens.
Cost: $1997-$2500 Week long experience ~ includes training, all materials, housing and breakfast and lunch.
RSVP HERE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/awaken-as-eros-an-erotic-laboratory-w-monique-darling-and-reid-mihalko-tickets-974387889407 - May Snugglefest and Communication WorkshopLas Vegas, Las Vegas, NV
Experience a snugglefest!
Come join us for a 3-hour event focusing on communication and non-sxxual touch. Meet other people in the community in a welcoming, authentic, and caring environment while you learn and practice connection and communication skills.What is the snugglefest?
A snugglefest is a safe space to engage in non-sxxual touch while practicing open communication and maintaining personal boundaries. It is a place to learn and practice communicating around touch and asking for what we want, being vulnerable with our wants and needs, honoring our own emotions, experiences, and boundaries, and respecting those of others. It is also a place we can develop a new way of seeing rejection as an honoring of someone else’s desires and boundaries. You can come to the snugglefest to meet new people, to have a great conversation, or just to cuddle!Some skills you may learn or practice at the snugglefest:
♥ Connecting in an authentic way
♥ Asking for your wants and needs
♥ Identifying and expressing your boundaries
♥ Hearing a no and respecting others’ boundaries
♥ Saying no to what you don’t want and yes to what you do
♥ Finding your voice
♥ Honoring your own emotions
♥ Developing a new relationship with rejection
♥ Communicating in a compassionate waySchedule:
8 pm - doors open. Please try to arrive by 8:15 so you have time to come in and get settled.
8:30 - doors close. No late entry is permitted.
Opening circle and mini-workshop where we will discuss and practice communicating desires, boundaries, and expectations.
Freestyle cuddle
10:45 - closing circleWhat to wear:
Comfortable clothing like pajamas or exercise clothesWhat to bring:
• A snack or non-alcoholic beverage to share (water will be provided)What not to bring:
• Fragrances - some are sensitive to strong fragrance
• Alcohol - this is a sober event
• Pets
• Anyone under 18 - adults onlyCovid Protocols:
Please do not attend if you are feeling unwell or have been exposed to covid. There is no requirement for vaccination or antibody status. You are attending at your own risk. If you would like to wear a mask, you are welcome to, but they will not be required. Hand soap and sanitizer will be amply available throughout the venue.Location:
This event will be held in a central location in Las Vegas. The address will be sent upon registration.Register at: https://events.humanitix.com/may-snugglefest-and-communication-workshop
Cost:
Early bird (until 5/9 at midnight): $25 per person
Regular price starting 5/10: $35 per personOnce you purchase tickets, please check your email for your purchase confirmation. It will have an orientation video for you to watch in order to get the exact location of the snugglefest.
This event will be somewhat gender-balanced.
If you see your ticket type sold out, please sign up for the waitlist.
If you need a scholarship or would like to volunteer to assist, please send Nikki a text to inquire at 702-674-6606. - Tantric Pool Party ~ Breathe, Stroke, ManifestLas Vegas, Las Vegas, NV
☀️ Tantric Pool Party ~ Breathe, Stroke, Manifest ☀️
Join us for a day of sun, pleasure, and powerful energetic play. We’ll start with a supportive self-pleasure coaching circle designed to help you explore your body with more confidence, ease, and enjoyment—perfect for those navigating common performance concerns or wanting to expand their capacity for pleasure. Next, we’ll move into a guided circle of light energy workshop, where you will learn to activate and circulate your life force energy. As the sun sets, we’ll open the temple for a sacred evening of sxx magic, connection, and embodied manifestation. Come play, expand, and co-create the life you truly desire—one breath, one stroke, one intention at a time.
People of all gender expressions, sxxual preferences, and relationship styles are welcome at this event.
The entire day is clothing-optional and 420-friendly. The smoking area is far away from the pool and jacuzzi.
This is a choose-your-own-adventure day. You can lounge in the sun, soak in the pool & hot tub, or come inside for workshops.
What to wear:
- The entire day/evening is clothing optional, so dress up, dress sxxy, and wear layers to get as naked as you like😊
What to bring:
- Towels for the pool/hot tub (towels will be available to rent for $5)
- A snack or non-alcoholic beverage to share
- A robe or sarong should you desire a quick cover-up.
Schedule:
12 noon - Doors open for those with afternoon and full-day passes
12:30 - Mini communication workshop where you will learn practices about consent, boundaries, and communicating your desires. If you have attended three events with an opening circle (cuddle party, snugglefest, or a temple party), you are welcome to arrive before and between workshops. Please avoid arriving during workshops.1:00 pm - Doors open for Stroke
1:30-3ish - Stroke with Sxx Coach Nikki
Master your solo pleasure. Transform your partnered sxx.
Want to be a better lover? Start with yourself.
One of the most powerful ways to improve your partnered sxx life is by mastering your own erot!c pleasure. In this all-gender workshop, you’ll learn solo practices drawn from Tantra and Taoist traditions to overcome common challenges like difficulty climaxing, premature org@sm, or erect!le dysfunct!on. We’ll explore techniques to expand your capacity for pleasure, awaken full-body orgasm!c sensations, and transform your self-pleasure from a quick release into a deeply nourishing, sensual experience. These practices don’t just feel good—they train your body and nervous system to be more present, confident, and responsive in connection with others.
This workshop will include an interactive lecture, demonstrations, and an optional guided practice time.4:00 pm - Doors open for Charge
4:30 - 6 pm - Charge With Dustin and Sxx Coach Nikki
Come explore the mystery of energy in this deeply connecting tantr!c workshop. We’ll warm up with breathwork and movement inspired by Osho’s Dynamic Meditation, then drop into partnered and group practices that build sensitivity, presence, and energetic awareness. Through guided embodiment, discussion, and play, you’ll learn to charge your body like a battery and direct energy consciously with others. Whether you're new to tantra or a seasoned explorer, this practice will help you feel more alive, attuned, and empowered in your body and relationships.
Sxx Magic Temple Night
Step into a night of magic, connection, and using your er0tic energy to manifest your desires. ✨ We’ll open with grounding exercises designed to support you in clarifying your desires, getting off on your shadows, and celebrating ALL of you and all parts of your personality. From there, you'll be guided through a powerful sxx magic ritual – sensually tapping into your life force energy to manifest your deepest desires. As always, each person is invited to participate according to their own comfort level.
7pm Doors Open For New Community Members with evening only tickets.
7:20 Mini communication workshop where you will learn practices about consent, boundaries, and communicating your desires. If you have attended three events with an opening circle (cuddle party, snugglefest, or a temple party), you are welcome to wait to arrive between 8 and 8:30.
8:00 Doors open for everyone
8:30 pm Doors close. No late entry is permitted. Please arrive as close to 8 as possible to bring your items and settle in the space. We will start the night with setting intentions, partnered and group ice breaker exercises, and a guided sxx magic ritual. As always, each person is invited to participate according to their own comfort level.
11:40 pm Closing circle
12 midnight - Event CloseWhat to bring for Temple:
- An intention of what you want to create/manifest in your life
- Towels -
~ for the pool/hot tub (towels will be available to rent for $5)
~ to put underneath you for the sxx magic ritual- A snack or non-alcoholic beverage to share
Optional:
- C0ndoms
- Gloves
- Lube
- Massage oil
- A robe or sarong should you desire a quick cover-up.
- Toys and tools – k!nk is encouraged, and all sensation play items are more than welcome
Tickets: https://events.humanitix.com/breathe-stroke-manifest
Come to one workshop, the entire afternoon, or the entire day!
Save with the whole day or afternoon pass bundle!*Note* if you purchase an afternoon or whole-day pass and have attended less than 3 events with a welcome circle, you must attend the mini communication workshop at the beginning of the day at 12:30
A whole day pass:
Super Early Bird Registration thru 5/3/2025
$99 single - save $48
$169 pairs - save $38Early Bird Registration thru 5/10/2025
$169 single - save $38
$199 pairs - save $98Regular Price
$199 single - save $98
$299 pair - save $118Afternoon pass:
Super Early Bird Registration thru 5/3/2025
$69 single - save $29
$99 pairs - save $39Early Bird Registration thru 5/10/2025
$99 single - save $39
$169 pairs - save $29Regular Price
$169 single - save $29
$199 pair - save $79Stroke with Sxx Coach Nikki
Super Early Bird Registration thru 5/3/2025
$49 single
$69 pairs
Early Bird Registration thru 5/10/2025
$69 single
$99 pairs
Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pairCharge With Dustin and Sxx Coach Nikki
Super Early Bird Registration thru 5/3/2025
$49 single
$69 pairs
Early Bird Registration thru 5/10/2025
$69 single
$99 pairs
Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pairLas Vegas Temple Party
Super Early Bird Registration thru 5/3/2025
$49 single
$69 pairs
Early Bird Registration thru 5/10/2025
$69 single
$99 pairs
Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pairSome sliding scale and scholarship tickets are available to people who would like to help with set up, clean up, and holding space. If you are interested in being on the team, please text Nikki at 7026746606
About your facilitator
♥ Sxx Coach Nikki has 15 years of experience professionally working in the erot!c arts. Wearing many different hats, she has helped thousands of people experience more pleasure through private sessions and classes. While her experience in the field is prodigious, she has the education to back it up as well as a Sxxological Bodyworker, Orgasm!c Meditation Trainer, Desire Based Life Coach, and Energetic Sxx Facilitator. She also holds a B.S. in Psychology. In addition to her professional experience and education, she brings her personal experience of living various lifestyles, including monogamous marriage, swinging, polyamory, and lifestyle dom/sub/switch. www.NikkiLundberg.com - Stroke with Sxx Coach NikkiLas Vegas, Las Vegas, NV
Master your solo pleasure. Transform your partnered sxx.
Want to be a better lover? Start with yourself.
One of the most powerful ways to improve your partnered sxx life is by mastering your own erot!c pleasure. In this all-gender workshop, you’ll learn solo practices drawn from Tantra and Taoist traditions to overcome common challenges like difficulty climaxing, premature org@sm, or erect!le dysfunct!on.
We’ll explore techniques to expand your capacity for pleasure, awaken full-body orgasmic sensations, and transform your self-pleasure from a quick release into a deeply nourishing, sensual experience. These practices don’t just feel good—they train your body and nervous system to be more present, confident, and responsive in connection with others.
This workshop will include an interactive lecture, demonstrations, and an optional guided practice time.
All open-minded adults are welcome – singles, couples, polyamorous, and all gender identities.
What to wear:
- The entire day/evening is clothing optional, so dress up, dress sxxy, and wear layers to get as naked as you like😊
Where
Address sent upon registration. The cross streets are Rainbow and Sahara.When
Saturday, 5/17/2025
Doors open at 1:00 pm
Event begins at 1:30 pm. Doors are locked – no late entry permitted
Estimated end time is 3:00 pmThis event is part of a full Tantric Pool Party Day!
Get a discount when you get an afternoon or full day pass and enjoy the pool, the hot tub and community time in between as a bonus!See all the details at https://events.humanitix.com/breathe-stroke-manifest
Registration: https://events.humanitix.com/stroke
Super Early Bird Registration thru 5/3/2025
$49 single
$69 pairs
Early Bird Registration thru 5/10/2025
$69 single
$99 pairs
Regular Price
$99 single
$139 pair:::
If you need a scholarship or would like to volunteer to assist, please send Nikki a text to inquire at 702-674-6606.About your facilitator
♥ Sxx Coach Nikki has 15 years of experience professionally working in the erot!c arts. Wearing many different hats, she has helped thousands of people experience more pleasure through private sessions and classes. While her experience in the field is prodigious, she has the education to back it up as well as a Sxxological Bodyworker, Orgasm!c Meditation Trainer, Desire Based Life Coach, and Energetic Sxx Facilitator. She also holds a B.S. in Psychology. In addition to her professional experience and education, she brings her personal experience of living various lifestyles, including monogamous marriage, swinging, polyamory, and lifestyle dom/sub/switch. www.NikkiLundberg.com
