About us
Welcome to Little Gay Book's San Francisco & Worldwide Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Meetup Group!
We're so glad you're here. This is a welcoming community for LGBTQ+ singles who want to meet new people, build genuine connections, and have fun along the way. Join our Meetup group to stay connected, never miss an event, and be the first to hear about new opportunities to meet other queer singles in San Francisco and beyond.
Our events are intentional, inclusive, and designed to make meaningful conversations happen. Whether you're looking for friendship, dating, or a long-term relationship, we create spaces where LGBTQ+ people can connect in a relaxed, authentic environment.
Since 2009, Little Gay Book has helped thousands of LGBTQ+ singles find meaningful connections and lasting relationships. We know there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating, which is why we offer a continuum of services that meet you wherever you are in your journey. Whether you're looking to meet new people through events, improve your dating confidence, get expert support navigating dating apps, or work with a professional matchmaker, we're here to support you.
Online Speed Dating
Meet from the comfort of home through Zoom. After a brief welcome, you'll rotate through a series of private five-minute conversations in breakout rooms. The following day, you'll receive the contact information for your mutual matches.
In-Person Speed Dating
Hosted at welcoming local gathering spots, our in-person events begin with a casual mingle before moving into structured mini-dates. It's a relaxed, low-pressure way to meet multiple people in one evening.
Personalized Matchmaking
Our experienced matchmakers take the time to truly get to know you before personally introducing you to thoughtfully selected, highly compatible singles. Every match is made by people, not algorithms.
Dating Coaching
Build confidence, improve communication, overcome dating challenges, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships with one-on-one coaching tailored to your goals.
Queer Love Decoded
Our signature multi-week program blends coaching, education, and real-world practice in a supportive small group. You'll gain practical dating skills, deepen self-awareness, and connect with other queer singles who are committed to personal growth.
Enhanced Dating App Management
Take the stress out of online dating with concierge-style support. We'll optimize your profile, refine your messaging, develop a personalized strategy, and help you approach dating apps with greater intention and confidence.
Frankly Speaking
Members of this Meetup group receive priority access to Frankly Speaking, our live monthly Q&A with Dr. Frankie Bashan.
Bring the questions you don't know who to ask. Whether it's dating, sex, relationships, family, coming out, or navigating life in the LGBTQ+ community, no topic is off limits. There are no canned answers or generic advice. We look at your unique situation, identify your patterns, and figure out what's really going on. Come get in the room. Learn more.
Join this Meetup group to stay informed about upcoming events, new programs, special gatherings, and opportunities to connect throughout the year.
Whether you're looking for your next great date, a long-term relationship, or simply a way to connect with more LGBTQ+ people in your community, we'd love to have you join us.
We look forward to meeting you soon!
Upcoming events
4
- $15.00
West Coast 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
·OnlineOnlineMeet Intentional LBTQ+ Singles. Create Real Connections.
Swiping can feel endless. Bars can be hit or miss. Little Gay Book creates a curated space designed specifically for LBTQ+ singles, where every conversation has the potential to lead to a new connection.
Whether you are newly single, newly out, returning to dating, or simply ready to try something new, this event offers a fun, low-pressure way to meet like-minded singles in your community.At Little Gay Book's West Coast 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you'll enjoy:
- A lively, well-hosted LBTQ+ speed dating event filled with laughter, flirting, and engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Algorithm-driven smart matches so you meet the people you are most interested in connecting with.
- Up to ten Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms with real singles serious about connecting.
- Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.
- Contact information for your matches after the event, making it easy to continue conversations and build real connections.
Tickets Required: How to Reserve Your Spot
Meetup is used to help our community discover events, stay connected, and learn about upcoming opportunities to meet other LBTQ+ singles, but all event registrations and ticket purchases are handled separately through Eventbrite. RSVPing on Meetup does not secure your spot.Pay for your ticket by clicking HERE.
💸 Insider Tip: Prices increase the closer we get to the event. Lock in your lower rate now, and your heart (and wallet) will thank you later
Please note: The number of Meetup RSVPs does not represent the total number of attendees. We promote our events through multiple channels, including our website, email community, social media, and other event platforms, so the actual attendance is different from the Meetup RSVP count.
Ready to Meet Someone New?
Dating can feel overwhelming, but finding a meaningful connection starts with showing up. Join Little Gay Book for an event designed to make meeting other LBTQ+ singles easier, more intentional, and more fun. Whether you meet a potential match, make a new friend, or simply enjoy being part of your local queer community, you never know who you might connect with.Reserve your spot for Little Gay Book's West Coast 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating event and take the next step toward meeting amazing LBTQ+ singles.
💘 By RSVPing to this Meetup event, you consent to receive email updates from Little Gay Book about this event, upcoming events, and related services. We respect your privacy, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
1 attendee - $15.00
West Coast 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
·OnlineOnlineMeet Intentional LBTQ+ Singles. Create Real Connections.
Swiping can feel endless. Bars can be hit or miss. Little Gay Book creates a curated space designed specifically for LBTQ+ singles, where every conversation has the potential to lead to a new connection.
Whether you are newly single, newly out, returning to dating, or simply ready to try something new, this event offers a fun, low-pressure way to meet like-minded singles in your community.At Little Gay Book's West Coast 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you'll enjoy:
- A lively, well-hosted LBTQ+ speed dating event filled with laughter, flirting, and engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Algorithm-driven smart matches so you meet the people you are most interested in connecting with.
- Up to ten Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms with real singles serious about connecting.
- Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.
- Contact information for your matches after the event, making it easy to continue conversations and build real connections.
Tickets Required: How to Reserve Your Spot
Meetup is used to help our community discover events, stay connected, and learn about upcoming opportunities to meet other LBTQ+ singles, but all event registrations and ticket purchases are handled separately through Eventbrite. RSVPing on Meetup does not secure your spot.Pay for your ticket by clicking HERE.
💸 Insider Tip: Prices increase the closer we get to the event. Lock in your lower rate now, and your heart (and wallet) will thank you later
Please note: The number of Meetup RSVPs does not represent the total number of attendees. We promote our events through multiple channels, including our website, email community, social media, and other event platforms, so the actual attendance is different from the Meetup RSVP count.
Ready to Meet Someone New?
Dating can feel overwhelming, but finding a meaningful connection starts with showing up. Join Little Gay Book for an event designed to make meeting other LBTQ+ singles easier, more intentional, and more fun. Whether you meet a potential match, make a new friend, or simply enjoy being part of your local queer community, you never know who you might connect with.Reserve your spot for Little Gay Book's West Coast 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating event and take the next step toward meeting amazing LBTQ+ singles.
💘 By RSVPing to this Meetup event, you consent to receive email updates from Little Gay Book about this event, upcoming events, and related services. We respect your privacy, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
1 attendee - $15.00
West Coast 50s & 60s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
·OnlineOnlineMeet Intentional LBTQ+ Singles. Create Real Connections.
Swiping can feel endless. Bars can be hit or miss. Little Gay Book creates a curated space designed specifically for LBTQ+ singles, where every conversation has the potential to lead to a new connection.
Whether you are newly single, newly out, returning to dating, or simply ready to try something new, this event offers a fun, low-pressure way to meet like-minded singles in your community.At Little Gay Book's West Coast 50s & 60s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you'll enjoy:
- A lively, well-hosted LBTQ+ speed dating event filled with laughter, flirting, and engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Algorithm-driven smart matches so you meet the people you are most interested in connecting with.
- Up to ten Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms with real singles serious about connecting.
- Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.
- Contact information for your matches after the event, making it easy to continue conversations and build real connections.
Tickets Required: How to Reserve Your Spot
Meetup is used to help our community discover events, stay connected, and learn about upcoming opportunities to meet other LBTQ+ singles, but all event registrations and ticket purchases are handled separately through Eventbrite. RSVPing on Meetup does not secure your spot.Pay for your ticket by clicking HERE.
💸 Insider Tip: Prices increase the closer we get to the event. Lock in your lower rate now, and your heart (and wallet) will thank you later
Please note: The number of Meetup RSVPs does not represent the total number of attendees. We promote our events through multiple channels, including our website, email community, social media, and other event platforms, so the actual attendance is different from the Meetup RSVP count.
Ready to Meet Someone New?
Dating can feel overwhelming, but finding a meaningful connection starts with showing up. Join Little Gay Book for an event designed to make meeting other LBTQ+ singles easier, more intentional, and more fun. Whether you meet a potential match, make a new friend, or simply enjoy being part of your local queer community, you never know who you might connect with.Reserve your spot for Little Gay Book's West Coast 50s & 60s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating event and take the next step toward meeting amazing LBTQ+ singles.
💘 By RSVPing to this Meetup event, you consent to receive email updates from Little Gay Book about this event, upcoming events, and related services. We respect your privacy, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
6 attendees - $15.00
West Coast 60s+ Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
·OnlineOnlineMeet Intentional LBTQ+ Singles. Create Real Connections.
Swiping can feel endless. Bars can be hit or miss. Little Gay Book creates a curated space designed specifically for LBTQ+ singles, where every conversation has the potential to lead to a new connection.
Whether you are newly single, newly out, returning to dating, or simply ready to try something new, this event offers a fun, low-pressure way to meet like-minded singles in your community.At Little Gay Book's West Coast 60s+ Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you'll enjoy:
- A lively, well-hosted LBTQ+ speed dating event filled with laughter, flirting, and engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Algorithm-driven smart matches so you meet the people you are most interested in connecting with.
- Up to ten Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms with real singles serious about connecting.
- Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.
- Contact information for your matches after the event, making it easy to continue conversations and build real connections.
Tickets Required: How to Reserve Your Spot
Meetup is used to help our community discover events, stay connected, and learn about upcoming opportunities to meet other LBTQ+ singles, but all event registrations and ticket purchases are handled separately through Eventbrite. RSVPing on Meetup does not secure your spot.Pay for your ticket by clicking HERE.
💸 Insider Tip: Prices increase the closer we get to the event. Lock in your lower rate now, and your heart (and wallet) will thank you later
Please note: The number of Meetup RSVPs does not represent the total number of attendees. We promote our events through multiple channels, including our website, email community, social media, and other event platforms, so the actual attendance is different from the Meetup RSVP count.
Ready to Meet Someone New?
Dating can feel overwhelming, but finding a meaningful connection starts with showing up. Join Little Gay Book for an event designed to make meeting other LBTQ+ singles easier, more intentional, and more fun. Whether you meet a potential match, make a new friend, or simply enjoy being part of your local queer community, you never know who you might connect with.Reserve your spot for Little Gay Book's West Coast 60s+ Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating event and take the next step toward meeting amazing LBTQ+ singles.
💘 By RSVPing to this Meetup event, you consent to receive email updates from Little Gay Book about this event, upcoming events, and related services. We respect your privacy, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
6 attendees
Past events
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