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This group serves all those in the San Joaquin County who practice or are curious about Consensual Non-Monogamy.

Our events are Safe Spaces and welcome to newbies, first-timers, questioners, intrinsic polys, those who've been "in it a while", and all levels of experience or lack thereof. All forms of Consensual Non-Monogamy, all ages 18+, orientations, gender identities and expressions, ethnicities, abilities and neurodivergences, non and religious beliefs and philosophies, politics, body sizes, shapes, and modifications are welcome, heard, given voice, and made space for. Monogamous partners of Non-Monogamous persons are more than welcome.
"Cowboying" is not welcome and will result in a ban. All on the Asexual Spectrum and Beyond are welcome. Cruising for that night's "hook-up" or "play" is not welcome and will result in a ban.

Rules:

  1. Respect individual journeys and do not gatekeep.
  2. No cowboying and no Cruising.
  3. Consent Is Everything Always and must be sought before action is taken. (Example: YES - "May I give you a hug?" NO - "I'm a hugger, bring it in!"

Consent is defined by the F.R.I.E.S. acronym:

  • Freely Given
  • Reversible
  • Informed
  • Enthusiastic
  • Specific

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