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What we’re about

Do you feel like there is something missing in your life? Happily married or in a relationship, family man, yet still feel a void? Are you bi and looking for like minded guys to talk with openly about your situation? Are you gay, yet still feel lonely? Are you single, but favor both guys and girls in some ways?

This group began over eight years ago with three bisexual married men meeting for social and emotional peer support over dinner once a month, and, after merging with two other Meetup groups, has grown into a large network of diverse men with a variety of orientations and relationships.   Regardless of how we found the group, those of us who have stayed have found comfort and support in the camaraderie and shared experiences offered here. 

Our goal is to have the ability to be open and honest with each other in a safe environment.  To that end, new applicants are asked to complete an entry survey to determine at least some basic compatibility with the group as a whole. This is warm, safe place for like minded men to open up and be themselves.

Group Guidelines:

• Confidentiality of all members will be respected and protected.  Conversations and information shared either online or in-person will not be shared with anyone outside of the group without prior permission from the person who initially discloses. 

• Personal boundaries will be respected and protected.  We will respect everyone in the group and not engage in psychological or sexual harassment, including inappropriate touching, name-calling or belittling in any way. 

• Members will commit to being as active as possible in the group.   Members are encouraged to suggest new discussion topics, resources, and activities, and to reach out to other members.

Check out some helpful sources in our discussion posts. https://www.meetup.com/5bisexualmarriedmen/messages/boards/thread/50795511#130394132